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PostPosted: Mon Nov 30, 2009 2:51 pm 
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This is a little different as I want to hear about the good stories not the bad, We always hearing how things go wrong or difficult relationships. I have set up a yahoo group called egyptian relationships because I want people to be able to search the web and find some nice stories as they all seem to put a dwner on having a relationship with Egyptian Man.
I am married to an Egyptian and have been with hm for a long time, There is even a considerable age difference, this has not caused us any problems.
We all have our ups and downs, and in many normal relationships with your own culture there can be problems that cannot be resolved. It is not easy in any relationship. It is such a shame that some Egyptian men can deceive women whilst they are having a fantastic holiday in Egypt. However there are many genuine nice guys. So come on ladies lets here the good stories.


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Hi i am also married to egyption man , i have been with him a long time too and we was legally married (not just white paper) 3 years ago , we spend 24 hours a day with each other as we work together too and we have a fantastic , loving relationship , but for everyone of me theres a lot of horror stories , but there is also a lot of good egyptions who get labelled the same as the bad egyptions because of all the bad experiences here in sharm , dont lose your mind by giving your heart and you will find a genuine man , i am very happy with my husband :D


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Hi

Here is a good story I meet my husband Mohamed over 3 years ago we got married a year after and i moved hear the year after this i have been living here for just over 1 year and we are extremely happy together, there is an age difference of 16 years but this has never caused us a problem. I believe it is the best move i have made and would never change the decision i made for love nor money.


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there is lot of good stories ...me i have so sweet girls they are 5 and 3 years old and we are togezer me and my wife more than 9 years now... from 2000 to 2002 we was in egypt and soon we are back again to live in sharm , men and women they have some times different thinking and its make life some time hard but if there is real love then it will go until u are living u and him alone again after kids grow up....one thing i want to advice u even as pad he speak about egypt never bleave what he said,(if u have Egyptian) it can really broke ur relationship if u do same like him.....is very important,that u respect his hidden love for his country, (its my oppinion) :D


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For a Foreigner it is better to know the Culture of the Partner better: please get better informed, this implies legal Rules, Women's Status there isn't the same as Women's Status abroad, Marriage's Rules aren't the same as abroad .... For Foreigners: get (better) informed BEFORE (getting engaged in such an important Relation), just to avoid bad Suprises LATER (not that Everytime there are: just, usually, if there are, they are very bad - worst). A beautiful Life to Everyone, Ladies first.


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Hmm only a few responses here.

Could be because an Egyptian man does not know how to treat a western woman :roll:

How can I sum them up? Selfish? Controlling?

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 Post subject: Re: Want to hear the good stories
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what exactly is ur problem smiler?
what is all this anger and hate?!?!
has ur girlfriend or wife been 'stolen' by an egyptian man?
or is ur love-life extremely unsatisfied and are u despirate?
why are u so anti-egyptian and put them all together in the same pot?
not all are the same!!! and why do so many western women respond to the men here?!?
why are you here in egypt if you hate the people here so much?
and from where do YOU know what women want?

i'm in egypt since 10 years and have seen it all! the good stories and the bad ones! i am not blind and see a lot of negative things happening in sharm, but then i see similar stories in europe too.....

life is, what u make out of it. it is everybody's own responsibility to be happy or not!

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 Post subject: Re: Want to hear the good stories
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Don't be so harsh Mickey!
Alot of Europes information comes from the media, who tend to print the bad stories, and usually those who speak about their experiences are those who have experienced a bad relationship, the ones who have good ones tend to get on with their day to day life enjoying each other and their faimlies without having to broad cast it.
But smiler she is right, dont believe everything you hear alot of us do have happy good relationships with our egyptian husbands, and when you dis these relationships not always based on fact we may get quite offended.
I came here from the Uk on holiday and met my husband, this was after I had been in a mentally abusive relationship back in the UK, he was extremely controlling and jealous and he was always cheating on me, and constantly getting me to buy him things. So when I came here and met my now husband it was like a breath of fresh air to find a guy who, took care of me and loved me so much, and now our children also.
Think before you speak, it doesn't matter on the nationality of the person it depends on the person themself.

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 Post subject: Re: Want to hear the good stories
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Hallo Smiler.

What a revolutionary News your Participation in this Forum.

Sounds frizzy.

Hallo Nicki.

And please, by the Time, did you just understand why did you choose an abusive Husband,

or did you just step into the next/now Relation, with no Worries (about the/your Past)?

Good Luck to Everyone. Take Care!


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francesca its ninky

I was not married before, and I didnt choose his behaviour, he was lovely in the beginning but at points abusive and sorry after,and when your in this type of relationship its hard to get out especially when you think you are in love, and have extremely low confidence as your weight has shot up to almost 100 kg and you think no one else will want you. Eventually i had the courage to get out and turned my life around.

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 Post subject: Re: Want to hear the good stories
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Hallo dear.

Yes, I know, one usually step ... unconsciously ... into a wrong Relation.

The fact is, that usually such Relations tell us 2 Things:

1) we are emotionally unable to choose a/the right Partner;
2) (shortly:) we - deeply inside ourselves - have a Lack of ... Self-esteem.

BEFORE stepping into another/better/new Relation, we should have:

a) aknowledged Point 1) and 2);
b) started an accurate "Work on ourselves", in order to understand why do we have a Lack of Self-esteem and eventually to heal it.

USUALLY it takes some Time,

and I hope you took yours, before "starting you/a new Life".

Wishing you Joy and Happiness, take Care, bye!


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 Post subject: Re: Want to hear the good stories
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apologies to step in here - and i Know it's been a while, but I have to reply on a couple of points!

Firstly - I have worked as a Domestic Violence Services manager for some years, previously having worked with the police and law courts to set up specialist DV courts and people do NOT choose to go into abusive relatuionships because they are either emotionally unstable or suffering from lack of self esteem. The perpetrator will ALWAYS start a relationship by being a charmer or it would never get past a first date.

The abuse comes from Power and Control - this is the basis of all domestic abuse - the perpetrator wanting complete control in a relationship and therefore exerts power over the abused. As an expert in this area i felt the need to clarify that for all who may read this thread!

Secondly, I have also met a very lovely Egyptian man who I come out to see at least 4 times a year - we are planning to marry and he has done all the legwork in arranging this and finding out all the legal side of things. I have also met his family, he owns his own business and is very keen to ensure that I am well looked after. I have the numbers of all his friends and family so that if I cannot reach him while I am in England, I can call someone else to check that he is ok - and he has not once asked me for anything, just my time. I am planning to marry later this year and move to Sharm next year - and I can't wait!


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